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Bisexual bashing

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I raise a sternful eyebrow at lesbians that don’t like bisexuals. And mutter a confused, ‘what the fuck’ under my breath when listening to their justifications.

When did there become a moral upper ground on sexuality?

And then even more quizzical: Why would we have it?

It’s almost baffles me to the point of struggling to write this blog.

I really do struggle understanding how people can hear the shit coming out of their mouths and then believe it.

It’s like dumb and dumber. The monologue.

Bisexuals are attracted to men and women.

That’s hard to believe, in our scissoring ways? That’s a problem, in our disgust of homophobia? That’s something to discriminate against, at our pride parades?

Again. What the fuck?

At the core it looks exactly the same as an angry man that can’t bag a dyke.

It’s a total insecurity. A fear that our own sexuality is not safe.  And a completely delusional intolerance of sexuality.

It’s like a vegan hating vegetarians. Because they don’t care about animals enough.

If you meet a nice bisexual girl and she is attracted to you. Be grateful; she is probably better looking than your average lesbo. Be secure, she is so into you that even though she has the choice of well, everyone, she wants you. And don’t judge her, because if she does leave you for a man, or decide she isn’t remotely attracted to women or cheats on you, you know it’s not because you transferred your own lesbian issues and she looked for an escape. Then she is just screwed up.

The bisexual woman is human. She is attracted to women.  And she is probably a cool chick.

And that to me, are three fundamental indicators of my kinda gal.

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